Every principle I work with is grounded in lived experience and long-term results. Nothing here is theoretical. The work has been tested, refined, and proven across two decades with clients from vastly different walks of life.
@Transforming with Fehm
(formerly @Healing with Fehm)
At its core, this is about remembering who you are beneath conditioning, roles, and survival patterns. I work from the understanding that you are not broken, lacking, or in need of fixing—you are a conscious creation, already whole.
I’ve been coaching formally since 2006, though the work began long before that. I have always been drawn to what lies beneath the obvious—leading, questioning, and challenging people beyond the edges they believed defined them. Coaching, for me, is not a profession I chose; it’s a responsibility I recognised.
I don’t do surface-level conversations or performative growth. I’m wired to listen for what’s unsaid, to notice patterns others miss, and to ask the questions that create real movement. Transformation has never been a buzzword in my world—it has been the work.
My practice has grown almost entirely through word-of-mouth. That has been intentional. Depth doesn’t scale loudly. Over the years, I’ve worked with individuals at critical crossroads—people navigating despair, transition, leadership pressure, and identity shifts—supporting them into clarity, stability, and expanded capacity.
Every principle I work with is grounded in lived experience and long-term results. Nothing here is theoretical. The work has been tested, refined, and proven across two decades with clients from vastly different walks of life.
Transformation, as I work with it, is not about fixing, motivating, or reshaping a person into something new.
It is about distilling what is essential, dissolving what no longer serves, and returning you to your own authority.
My role is not to “do” the work for you.
I listen deeply. I notice patterns quickly. I ask precise questions. I reflect what is unseen.
At times I will hold steady, at times I will nudge, and when required, I will challenge — always in service of your growth, never control.
The client remains in charge of their transformation.
I do not create dependency. I build clarity, self-trust, and inner leadership.
The work is tailored, intuitive, and responsive. No two processes look the same, because no two people are.
For those ready for deeper, more intentional work, I facilitate small cohorts designed for depth rather than volume:
Deep Dive — 5 clients
Primal Edge — 5 clients
Legacy — 5 clients
Each container is deliberate, focused, and spacious enough for real integration.
In addition, I will be opening three protégé spaces for those who feel called to this work. I do not believe coaching is a certification or a career ladder.
Coaching is not a job you choose—it’s a responsibility you answer when you’re ready to hold others with clarity, integrity, and presence.
Transformation is not about becoming someone else and here it is not performative.
It is precise, grounded, and enduring.
It is about returning to yourself — and living from that place with precision and courage.
• To serve until I am spent.
• To Create containers within which every client shifts to thrival.
• To unveil and extract the genius within.
• To serve with grace and compassion.
When you choose to work with me, you can expect an open honest exchange. My burning desire to build a legacy of having served with purpose creates a working relationship frequency destined to bring about positive shifts for you.
Life Coaching is a structured, supportive process that helps you gain clarity, regulate your inner world, and navigate life’s challenges with confidence and self-trust. It’s not about fixing you — it’s about helping you access the wisdom and capacity already within you.
Life Coaching is for anyone who wants to understand themselves better, move through challenges consciously, and grow with intention — regardless of age or stage of life.
No. Life Coaching is not therapy or diagnosis-based work. It focuses on awareness, empowerment, and forward movement, while honouring your lived experience.
Sacred Profiling is a self-awareness tool based on sacred mathematics derived from your date of birth. It is not numerology or astrology. It helps you understand your strengths, challenges, and the life cycle you’re currently in — offering clarity for decision-making and relationships.
It is grounded in sacred order and universal principles, not belief systems. People of all faiths — or none — engage with this work comfortably.
Transformation unfolds through commitment and consistency. Some clients experience clarity quickly; deeper integration occurs over time through practice and reflection.
Life Coaching is not about fixing you.
It’s about remembering yourself.
At its essence (and I use that word deliberately), Life Coaching is an ancient, essential human practice. Long before certifications and frameworks existed, communities were held by elders — individuals gifted with presence, discernment, and the ability to listen beyond words. Their role was not to rescue, but to guide people back to clarity.
Today, amidst relentless noise, grief, pressure, and disconnection, that role is more necessary than ever.
Life will present challenges — emotional, relational, physical, spiritual, material. That is not a flaw in the system; it is the system. What determines whether those challenges break you or deepen you is whether you are equipped with the right tools, perspectives, and inner access.
Life Coaching creates a safe, contained space where you can meet yourself honestly — without judgement, labels, or self-attack.
As your coach, I provide grounded support, precise insight, and practical techniques that empower you to do the inner work required to move from overwhelm into calm authority, from confusion into clarity, from reaction into conscious choice.
Simply put — everyone.
Humans have always coached one another instinctively:
Parents guide their children
Leaders develop their teams
Friends hold space during moments of crisis
Elders counsel the younger generation
Coaching is woven into the fabric of how we are meant to relate.
What has changed is conditioning.
Modern life has distorted how we engage with ourselves and with one another. We’ve replaced collaboration with comparison, curiosity with judgement, compassion with competition. This ego-driven conditioning often results in fractured relationships, internal conflict, and unnecessary suffering — especially during already difficult seasons of life.
None of this is your fault.
Peace and harmony are restored not by becoming someone new, but by deprogramming what was never truly you and reconnecting with your intrinsic nature.
Life Coaching supports this return — gently, powerfully, and always starting with you.
Transformation is not accidental — it is participatory.
When a client is willing to engage in honest self-inquiry and apply the practices discussed during sessions, change becomes inevitable. This work asks for:
Commitment
Consistency
Patience
Perseverance
In return, it delivers profound and sustainable shifts.
This is not a quick-fix model. It is a deep recalibration that strengthens your inner compass, allowing you to respond to life with clarity, steadiness, and self-trust — even when circumstances remain challenging.
Let’s be clear:
There is nothing mystical, predictive, or “woo-woo” about this work.
Sacred Profiling is a self-understanding methodology based on sacred mathematics — an algorithm developed by a renowned mathematician, working solely from your date of birth (your date of arrival).
This is not:
Numerology
Astrology
Horoscopes
Zodiac systems
It is mathematics rooted in sacred order.
Across civilizations and religions, numbers and geometry have been used for centuries to interpret meaning, timing, and structure — from sacred texts to architectural design. The universe itself operates within an exact, intelligent order. Entire scientific disciplines exist to study this precision.
Your birth date carries information.
Through Sacred Profiling, we unpack:
^Your inherent strengths and growth edges
^Recurring patterns that influence your choices
^The life cycle you are currently moving through
^Understanding whether you are in a cycle of New Beginnings, Radical Change, Relationship and Family, or Completion can bring immense clarity when making life-altering decisions.
This work is especially powerful for:
^Navigating relationships with greater compassion and insight
^Understanding partnership dynamics and reducing unnecessary conflict
^Supporting children in alignment with their natural disposition
^Making aligned personal, relational, or professional decisions
When this information is unknown, people often misinterpret challenges as incompatibility or failure — leading to avoidable pain and separation. When understood, the same challenges can become the very ground that strengthens connection and purpose.
It is grounded in sacred order and universal principles, not belief systems. People of all faiths — or none — engage with this work comfortably.
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